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Coming up next:
Every Wed - HoS Clubhouse: open hours for HoS membersThu 12.5 - Taste The Rainbow: community social (open to non-members)
Fri 12.13 - Lip Service: pansexual makeout party
Wed 12.18 - Sinema Club: Hallmark holigays!
Fri 12.20 - FemFlirt: women- and NB-only flirting & makeout party (open to non-members)
Fri 12.27 - Dark DecaDance: goth dance & kink social party (open to non-members)
Full info below; all tix on membership page.
HoS hosts 5-7 monthly events. Taste The Rainbow, our sex-positive community-building mixer, is the best place to start if you're new, and/or want facilitated introductions, detailed explanations, and social party games. If you're feeling more adventurous, our makeout party Lip Service is the event we're most well known for: think of it as rated R instead of X. We also love to create sexiness for your brain: there's our Sinema Club, exploring sexuality and queerness on film, from PG to X rating, and the twice-monthly Bedroom Badass, our series of "adult" education workshops. The classes and movie nights coincide with Wednesday night HoS Clubhouse hours, when the bar and lounge of our home venue, Gemini and Scorpio Loft, are open FREE to all members.
In addition to our monthly parties, we have three rotating quarterly events: Saints and Sinners, a creeper-free strip club-themed performance party; FemFlirt, a women- and NB-only flirting party, and Fierce!, a queer+ dance party and social.
Plus we do one-off events, like Persephone, an immersive performance, sensory & kink experience; and The Sinners Market, New York's only fetish, fantasy and sex-positive pop-up market. And of course you never know what other unpredictable sex-positive events we may come up with.
Details for all upcoming events are below and are easiest to get via our mailing list, just to the right. Membership is required to attend all HoS events unless otherwise specified (it's instant and starts at $5). Our Code of Conduct always applies, and some of our events require PALs. Additionally, approval is required for play events. Read the invites below fully, as each specifies attendance requirements. Lastly, we still take COVID seriously and have specific counter-infection measures in place, outlined here.
2024 ongoing events at a glanceHoS Clubhouse - Every Wed - open hours for HoS members | |
Taste The Rainbow - HoS current & future member mixer - every first Thursday 1.4, 2.1, 3.7, 4.4, 5.10, 6.6, 7.5, 8.1, 9.5, 10.3, 11.1, 12.5 Lip Service - pansexual makeout party - every second Friday 1.12, 2.9, 3.8, 4.12, 5.12, 6.14, 7.12, 8.9, 9.13, 10.11, 11.8, 12.13 Bedroom Badass - adult skills class - every second Wednesday with Fox 1.11, 2.8, 3.13, 4.10, 5.8, 6.12, 7.10, 8.14, 9.11, 10.9, 11.13, 12.11 Bedroom Badass - adult skills class - every fourth Wednesday with other teachers dates: 2.22, 3.27, 4.24, 5.22, 6.26, 7.24, 8.28, 9.25, 10.23 |
Sinema Club - movie & social night - every third Wednesday 1.21, 2.18, 3.17, 4.21, 5.26, 6.16, 7.21, 8.18 9.22, 10.20, 11.17, 12.15 Dark DecaDance - goth dance & kink play party - every fourth Saturday 1.26, 2.23, 3.22, 4.26, 5.24, 6.28, 7.27, 8.23, 9.27, 10.25, 11.22, 12.27 Fierce! queer+ dance party & social - rotating every third Friday 1.19 4.19, 8.16, 10.18 FemFlirt - fem4fem flirting & makeout party - rotating every third Friday 3.15, 6.21, 12.20 Saints & Sinners - strip club-themed performance party - rotating every third Friday 2.16, 5.17, 7.19, 9.20, 11.15 |
Every Wednesday: HoS Clubhouse
2024 dates: 1st Wed TBC, 2nd-4th Wednesdays are ON!
7pm-12am in bar while events take place in main space, 21+ (25+ suggested)
HoS members only; FREE for all members; Friend+ can bring up to two guests
Gemini & Scorpio Loft, 267 Douglass St, 3rd fl (ADA accessible)
Membership required but no advance registration
Whatever your membership level, you are invited to use our space as your own for the night...as your clubhouse. While ticketed activities take place in the main space, the bar and lounge remain open 7pm-11pm (12am if enough people are lounging). Just like with regular events, if you're Friend level and above, you can bring up to two friends with you. Order in dinner, have a few drinks, run a friendly board game, or just read a book on the comfy couch. This is not a mixer -- just us opening our doors for our members. It's up to you how much you socialize, if at all, and with whom.
Every first Thursday: Taste The Rainbow: sex-positive kinky poly LGBTQ+ mixer
2024 dates: 1.4, 2.1, 3.7, 4.4, 5.10, 6.6, 7.5, 8.1, 9.5, 10.3, 11.1, 12.5
Next event: Thursday December 5 , 7pm-12am, 21+ (25+ suggested)
For existing & prospective HoS members*; members: $0 / non-members: $10
Gemini & Scorpio Loft, 267 Douglass St, 3rd fl (ADA accessible)
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We get asked all the time how people can join us if they are shy, don't know like-minded friends, lack PALs for the play parties, have no idea how this whole thing works, don't really feel like jumping into sexual activity but want to connect to open-minded humans, etc. This new monthly party is the answer!
Calling all poly, swinger, kink, LGBTQIA and other "alternative" dating/sex/gender-aligned humans and their allies. We're creating a protected and judgment-free space for connections, conversations, community, games and interactivity. This is the ONLY HoS event open to non-members. Come meet the community before you join!
For those of you new to it all: direct introductions to HoS members new and old; facilitated discussions on poly, kink and swinger lifestyles; icebreaker games to welcome you to our club.
For our regulars: a way to ease new friends into our scene; a chance to meet all the new faces you may want to kiss later; a visit with the community even if your PAL is not around
For everyone: tabletop and social games, both risqué and plain fun; a charming host to make the introductions and explain all things HoS and sex-positive, and a cozy setting for conversations and future kisses. Our main icebreaker game, HoS Guest Bingo, runs from 7:30pm until we have a winner: get to know everyone in the room, and win a drink if you complete your bingo card.
Miss Scorpio is back hosting the mixer! Come ask her directly anything you want to know about this community. We've been building it for you for 10+ years, and hope to be here for 10+ more.
*HoS rules: HoS membership, Dress Code, PAL and prior approval not required; Code of Conduct always applies; no photos except in the designated front area.
COVID safety: HoS requires proof of vaccination on file; masks encouraged; two hospital grade UV air purifiers will cycle the air.
Every second Friday: Lip Service (a pansexual kissing & cocktails party)
2024 dates: 1.12, 2.9, 3.8, 4.12, 5.12, 6.9, 7.12, 8.9, 9.13, 10.11, 11.8, 12.13
Next event: Fri December 13, 9pm-2am, 21+ (25+ suggested)
HoS members only*, $0-25 depending on membership level
Gemini & Scorpio Loft, 267 Douglass St, 3rd fl (ADA accessible)
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Bring your luscious lips (yours and your PAL's), and join us for lubricating cocktails and naughty games with sexy friends and intriguing strangers. Bring toys & games to share (blindfolds? rope? sexy dice?).
Feeling shy or wanting to meet new folks? Come early! Between 9-11pm, Miss Scorpio is there to introduce new members to old timers, explain how the whole HoS thing works, and generally make a delightful fuss over your presence. It's also a great time to ask her everything you ever wanted to know about HoS.
Think of our makeout parties as R-rated community mixers--a place to get to know your fellow kinksters, introduce a partner to a more playful lifestyle, and maybe even find a future PAL--before attending the more naughty play parties. It's also a way for us to vet you in person for those parties; talk to us at the event.
Dress code: Dress to be kissed: sexy and fun. Fetish attire, formalwear, lingerie, corsets, tutus and costumes always welcome...and we consider those unisex options (the more colorful and outrageous, the better). No casual or business; door person WILL turn you away. Yes, you can change when you get here.
*HoS rules: HoS membership, PAL & Dress Code required; no prior approval required; Code of Conduct always applies; no photos except in the designated front area.
COVID safety: HoS requires proof of vaccination on file; masks encouraged; two hospital grade UV air purifiers will cycle the air.
Ongoing schedule TBA: Countdown: private party for HoS members
2024 dates: no set schedule
Next event: Sat July 27, 10pm-3am, 21+ (25+ suggested)
HoS members only*, $0-50 depending on membership level, see below for sale timing
Gemini & Scorpio Loft, 267 Douglass St, 3rd fl (ADA accessible)
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It's back for one night only...
The countdown begins when doors open at 10pm: it's a mix-and-mingle cocktail party for the first hour. At 11, all regular makeout party rules apply. At 12am, the door is locked, and you're welcome to frolic and play until we close. Please arrive by 11:45pm, though you can leave anytime.
Dress code: Dress to be kissed: sexy and fun. Fetish attire, formalwear, lingerie, corsets, tutus and costumes always welcome...and we consider those unisex options (the more colorful and outrageous, the better). No casual or business; door person WILL turn you away. Yes, you can change when you get here.
*HoS rules: HoS membership, PAL & Dress Code required; approval required; Code of Conduct always applies; no photos except in the designated front area.
Every fourth Sat: Dark DecaDance goth dance + kink play party
2024 dates: 1.26, 2.23, 3.22, 4.26, 5.24, 6.28, 7.27, 8.23, 9.27, 10.25, 11.22, 12.27
Next event: Fri 12.27, 10pm-4am, 21+ (25+ suggested)
For existing and prospective HoS members*; members: $0-20 / non-members: $15 adv, $20 door
Earlybird sale: -$5 off until Fri Aug 16
Gemini & Scorpio Loft, 267 Douglass St, 3rd fl (ADA accessible)
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DDD is a queer-forward kink-friendly goth dance celebration, inviting all participants to let go, dance and play in our luscious private loft. We embrace all genders and sexualities and levels of darkness. Consent and polite party behavior strictly enforced.
On decks:
DJ Shiver has been bringing the best of darkwave, goth, industrial, and post-punk sounds since 2015. Having spun at Femme Fest LA, Defcon NYC, and co-founding clubs Dolce Vita and Physical Ruins, she continues to blend both beloved classics and the best of new dark music. She also runs Wire Trap music magazine featuring the best new darkwave and post-punk music and events.
Guest DJ Kamikaze Tomato has played darkwave, goth & other dark alternatives genres while on the scene the last few years. Despite this short time, she has been a guest DJ at About to Cry, Fright Market, No Return Post Punk Society, QXTs, Resurrection 2.0, Satanic Temple events, Sirens of Sound, Sunday Mourning and more. She currently has her own dark dance night, Sanctified, at Amityville Music Hall in Long Island. Other monthly residencies include the Flying Fox Tavern & Ian Ford's Caffeine Underground.
Dress code: goth, fetish, romantic, vampire, dark Lolita, neo-Victorian, steampunk, ninja warrior. Effort required / no casual wear.
*HoS rules: HoS membership, PAL and prior approval not required. Dress Code required; Code of Conduct always applies; no photos except in the designated front area.
COVID safety: masks encouraged; two hospital grade UV air purifiers will cycle the air.
Every second and fourth Wednesday: Bedroom Badass sex-positive workshops
2024 dates: 1.11, 2.8, 2.22, 3.13, 3.27, 4.10, 4.24 5.8, 5.22, 6.12, 6.26 7.10, 7.24, 8.14, 8.28 9.11, 9.25, 10.9, 10.23, 11.13, 12.11
Bedroom Badass is our series of workshops to take couples and individuals through various steps in opening up their relationships, or in exploring more adventurous sexual experiences. Whether you're a total novice or an old pro, each class has a range of information relevant to all experience levels.
All BB classes are a mixture of lecture, hands-on experience, and dedicated Q&A time. After class, stay for dedicated practice & play time to help you solidify your skills, while our teacher remains available for guidance. Always BYO practice items, where relevant, though we will always have a selection on hand.
Plus: House of Scorpio Clubhouse. Whatever your membership level, you are invited to use our space as your own for the night...as your clubhouse. While ticketed activities take place in the main space, the bar and lounge remain open 7pm-11pm (12am if enough people are lounging). Just like with regular events, if you're Friend level and above, you can bring up to two friends with you. Order in dinner, have a few drinks, run a friendly board game, or just read a book on the comfy couch. This is not a mixer -- just us opening our doors for our members. It's up to you how much you socialize, if at all, and with whom.
HoS rules: HoS membership required; dress code, PAL or prior approval not required; Code of Conduct always applies; no photos except in the designated front area.
COVID safety: HoS requires proof of vaccination on file; masks encouraged; two hospital grade UV air purifiers will cycle the air.
Bedroom Badass: Beginner Rope 2 (part 1 not required to attend)
Wed Oct 23, 7-11:00pm 21+ (25+ suggested), HoS members only*
Main space: HoS members only, class followed by guided practice, $0-30 depending on membership level
Bar & lounge: HoS Clubhouse, $FREE
Gemini & Scorpio Loft, 267 Douglass St, 3rd fl (ADA accessible)
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Main space: HoS members only, class followed by guided practice, $0-30 depending on membership level
Bar & lounge: HoS Clubhouse, $FREE
Gemini & Scorpio Loft, 267 Douglass St, 3rd fl (ADA accessible)
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Although rope seems like the obvious choice of bondage material to many, it is a very difficult medium for beginners to manipulate properly. We will make it easy for you by introducing basic safety and tool concepts before moving onto basic rope restraint techniques. These rope ties can be used decoratively and restrictively in a variety of positions, which can be customized to meet yours and your partners' physical abilities and personal goals.
Some topics to be covered:
- Why rope?
- Safety basics
- Rope tension
- Scene experience options
Demos & practice:
- Connected tying demo/exercise
- Beginner friendly Wrist & Ankle Cuffs with Options
- Basic Chest Harness with Flexibility Options
- Simple Full Body Harness
Bedroom Badass: Tool Free Torture with Foxie Lou
Wed Nov 13, 7-11:00pm 21+ (25+ suggested), HoS members only*
Main space: HoS members only, class followed by guided practice, $0-30 depending on membership level
Bar & lounge: HoS Clubhouse, $FREE
Gemini & Scorpio Loft, 267 Douglass St, 3rd fl (ADA accessible)
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Main space: HoS members only, class followed by guided practice, $0-30 depending on membership level
Bar & lounge: HoS Clubhouse, $FREE
Gemini & Scorpio Loft, 267 Douglass St, 3rd fl (ADA accessible)
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1: Chompology: The art and science of biting
Biting is such a simple yet powerful way to play. We will explore this delightfully dynamic technique and all of the ways it can be used for pain, pleasure and adding an extra spark to your scenes.
- Some topics to be covered:
- Anatomy and safety in using biting
- Effective negotiation techniques for play and consent
- Different types of bites using different parts of your mouth
- Techniques to create an entire scene with just one bite
- Sucking, drooling, dragging and marks
- Using a bite as communication and setting the tone for a scene
P2: Digital wizardry: Sadism at your fingertips
We all love toys, but we often forget just how much we can do with just our hands! This class will go over all the dynamic things you can do with just your fingertips including blowing your bottoms mind without ever touching their bits or butts.
- Some topics to be covered:
- Effective negotiation techniques for play and consent
- Understanding anatomy and how to find the right spots (nerves vs muscles vs skin)
- Pressure points
- Poking at the soft and strange bits, bringing attention to lesser touched places
- Impact techniques and varying sensations
- Pain and pleasure techniques while poking around bits
2024 Bedroom Badass topics
Jan 11 w Fox: Collaborative play: Mastering co-topping and wordcraft in your scenesFeb 8 w Fox: Fox's Floggers
Feb 22 w Euphoria: Playing with Power Exchange & D/s Dynamics
March 13 w Fox: Kink & Poly 101
March 27 w Euphoria: Exploring Kinks & Fetishes
April 10 w Fox: Intimate Dynamics: Mastering Topping and Bottoming
April 24 w Mistress DiamondBlu: Improv for kinky people Part 1
May 8 w Mistress DiamondBlu: Improv for kinky people Part 2
May 22 w Lady Euphoria Sol: Building connection and Intimacy in kink
June 12 w Fox: Seamless Play: Maintaining Connection Through Interruptions in Intimate Scenes
June 26 w Euphoria: Playing with Energy & Intention in Kink
July 10 w Fox: Playing with gender in D/s
July 24 w Euphoria: Intro to Sensual Wax Play Part 1
Sept 11 w Euphoria: Intro to Sensual Wax Play Part 2
Sept 25 w Euphoria: Intro to Rope Bondage
Oct 9 w Fox: Mastering co-topping and wordcraft in your scenes
Oct 23 : Beginner Rope 2 (part 1 not required to attend)
Nov 13 w Fox: Tool Free Torture: Sadism using only your fingers and teeth
Current Bedroom Badass Teachers
Vonka is a fierce femme Bluenette sadist passionate about sharing knowledge and creating safer spaces. In addition to organizing the largest and longest running monthly play parties in NJ with Conduit Enterprises, Vonka is a NJTNG moderator and a frequent presenter at Dark Odyssey. Outside of the dungeon, you can usually find her performing Burlesque across the North Eastern US or gracing the screens of your technical devices with her modeling and fetish work.
Lady Euphoria is a Transformational Lifestyle & Professional Dominatrix, BDSM Educator, Coach and Ritualist. Her work centers inner exploration, shadow work and energetics in pursuit of Euphoria. She is most recently known for her role as former founding headmistress and curator of 7 Days of Domination, a quarterly week-long series of educational kink talks from worldwide BDSM experts.
Mx Fox is a Femme Domme, Kink educator and Relationship & Intimacy coach who has been in the scene for 8 years. Whether you're experienced or new to the scene, Fox loves to work with folks of all levels to help them feel excited to express themselves shamelessly and of course, have hotter safer and sexier relationships.
Mistress Diamond Blu is an award-winning photographer, cinematographer, writer, director (theater and film), trained actor, improviser, a professional Dominatrix, Reiki Master, Shamanic practioner and creative Kink Facilitator from Montreal, Canada. For the past 20 years, she has been and continues to be a lifelong passionate student of theatre, improv, and BDSM.
Multithreaded/Mike (He/Him) Is a long time rope enthusiast with 10+ years of experience in the NYC Rope/Kink community. He enjoys exploring the power and versatility of rope as a creative act of communication, connection, and shared experience through an improvisational and observant style. He also enjoys sharing knowledge and helping others along their rope journey.
Rotating every third Wednesday: Sinema Club
2024 dates: 1.21, 2.18, 3.20, 4.17, 5.15, 6.19, 7.17, 8.21, 9.18, 10.16, 11.20, 12.18
Wednesday, December 18, 7pm-12am, 21+ (25+ suggested)
HoS members only*, $0-20 depending on membership level
Gemini & Scorpio Loft, 267 Douglass St, 3rd fl (ADA accessible)
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A brand new HoS member mixer and another open night to enjoy our lush clubhouse.
The body's largest sex organ is the brain. Sinema Club stimulates yours with films that are explicitly erotic, homo-romantic, or gender-exploring -- and always thought-provoking. A rousing discussion follows; drinking is encouraged throughout, and mingling happens before, during and after: the bar remains open for socializing, while the film plays in the main space. Plus: free popcorn from our vintage cart.
This month: Hallmark holigays! It's been a tough year...let's hide under the cinematic blanket of the gayest (in every sense) Christmas spirit of the Hallmark Channel, everybody's go-to for holiday schmaltz. We'll cue up a few options, warm up the hot chocolate (for real!), and pick the one movie to out-cheese them all. Both picks bring the holiday feels as well as subvert familiar Christmas-movie tropes. PJs and blankets welcome.
Option 1: FRIENDS & FAMILY CHRISTMAS (2023), which repurposes the career-obsessed single who brings the "fake" romantic partner home for holiday dinner, albeit with a lesbian protagonist and love interest this time. Naturally, neither the dinner or "fake" partner go exactly as they expect.
Option 2: THE HOLIDAY SITTER (2022), in which a lovably irresponsible gay dude gets stuck with the care of his nephew and niece due to an unexpected crisis. Will he rise to the occasion, thereby reinforcing the time-worn edict that being part of a family during the holidays means rising to the occasion?
[In case you still want Real Film, for Option 3, we will be offering a choice a little more in line with what we normally screen: François Ozon's 8 WOMEN (8 FEMMES) (2002), starring almost every famous French actress of the time. It plays with elements of the Christmas-set murder mystery, albeit with more camp and lesbianism than is typical.]
Sinema Club is curated and hosted by Phil Guie-Ng (@thatphilguymovies): an inquisitive, ardent longtime film critic who is dying to tell you about movies you haven't heard of yet. As a reviewer at the website Film-Forward, his self-appointed mission was covering documentaries and features about subjects who challenged conventional attitudes about gender, masculinity, and more. When Phil isn't writing about movies, you can find him in Brooklyn taking part in protests on behalf of basic human rights.
*HoS rules: HoS membership required; dress code, PAL or prior approval not required; Code of Conduct always applies; no photos except in the designated front area.
***Plus: House of Scorpio Clubhouse. Whatever your membership level, you are invited to use our space as your own for the night...as your clubhouse. While the ticketed activities will take place on the stage side of the room, the bar and lounge will remain open 7pm-11pm (12am if enough people are lounging). Just like with regular events, if you're Friend level and above, you can bring up to two friends with you. Order in dinner, have a few drinks, run a friendly board game, or just read a book on the comfy couch. This is not a mixer -- just us opening our doors for our members. It's up to you how much you socialize, if at all, and with whom.
COVID safety: HoS requires proof of vaccination on file; masks encouraged; two hospital grade UV air purifiers will cycle the air.
Rotating every third Friday Fierce! poly, kinky, queer & allies dance party & social
2024 dates: 1.19 4.19, 8.16, 10.18
Next event: 10.18, 10pm-3am, 21+ (25+ suggested)
For existing & prospective HoS members; members: $0-10 / non-members: $15
Gemini & Scorpio Loft, 267 Douglass St, 3rd fl (ADA accessible)
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Calling all poly, swinger, kink, LGBTQIA+ and other "alternative" dating/sex/gender-aligned humans and their allies for a social & dance blowout in our lush nightlife lair. We got lights & smoke & lasers, booming bass, spinning disco ball, swirling visuals, sprawling dance floor, lots of couches.
Fierce! brings together sultry vibes and celebratory joy, melding mysterious flirtation with sincere connection, all of which is reflected in an eclectic music palate of energetic dance music. Queer DJs lay down an eclectic mix of happy hits & house beats. This night features our resident, underground fave DJ Illexxandra, and special guest Robinette Jones.
Resident DJ: Illexxandra
A longtime staple of the Brooklyn underground, Illexxandra has played for many sex-positive events, including Wonderland NYC, Pleasure Garden Club in Philly, the Museum of Sex as a resident disco DJ for their 2016-2017 disco exhibit, and is an ongoing resident DJ for Chemistry NYC. She is a frequent DJ at Hot Rabbit since 2015, and has DJ’d several times in the NYC Dance Parade, Coney Island Mermaid Parade, and NYC Halloween Parade. In 2016 and 2017, she joined the NYC Pride March as the DJ on the lead Stonewall float. Illexxandra is the Creative Director of Burning Man Information Radio.
Dress code: your queerest self! Sparkly unicorns, leather daddies, LED aliens, fancy fairies, punk dykes, glitter glamour queens, sequin divas, kinky party monsters, dandy butches, neon rainbow bears...with sensible dancing shoes. This party is inclusive of all genders & expressions -- except casual wear.
*HoS rules: Dress code required; HoS membership, PAL or prior approval not required; Code of Conduct always applies; no photos except in the designated front area.
COVID safety: HoS requires proof of vaccination on file; masks encouraged; two hospital grade UV air purifiers will cycle the air.
Rotating every third Friday: FemFlirt (flirting class + femmes-only makeout party)
2024 dates: 3.15, 6.21, 12.20
Next event: Friday, December 20, 8pm doors / 8:30-9:30pm class / 10pm-2am party, 21+ (25+ suggested)
HoS members only*, $0-20 depending on membership level
Gemini & Scorpio Loft, 267 Douglass St, 3rd fl (ADA accessible)
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It's been a common refrain that it's harder for women to flirt with each other, as we frequently can't tell how much flirting may be ok, who's straight and who's flexible/bi/queer, whether a connection we may be feeling is a friendly one or one with potential chemistry to explore. And, when cis & hetero presenting, we are sometimes made to feel too straight for queer spaces, so are left to guess in mixed environments.
This event is a small step towards diminishing bi, queer and gay femme invisibility, enabling and encouraging women of all genders to connect socially and romantically to other women. We hope to be a place of empowerment and support for your exploration, even if you're just starting out or are unsure about your orientation. Explore and push your boundaries in a safe space, or just be be social with other queer or queer-curious femmes.
We start with "Flirting for Femmes" mini Bedroom Badass class with Vonka, followed by a sassy makeouts-encouraged mixer giving you a chance to practice your new skills. Don't need the class or don't want to flirt? Come for the party and connect with a roomful of NB- or fem-identifying humans.
Dress code: dress in whatever makes you feel sexy, however feminine or masculine you feel. We won't enforce the dress code as strictly as at our other events, but we respectfully ask for no casual attire. You're coming to flirt!
Who can attend: NB- or fem-identifying humans who want to connect with other NB and fem folk, from bi-curious to gay. While HoS events are usually more pansexual, we're going to keep this one as a femme-only space. Please note that we're a TERF-free zone! Trans women are women, and we <3 you.
*HoS rules: HoS membership & dress code required; PAL or prior approval not required; Code of Conduct always applies; no photos except in the designated front area.
COVID safety: HoS requires proof of vaccination on file; masks encouraged; two hospital grade UV air purifiers will cycle the air.
Rotating every third Friday: Saints & Sinners: strip club-themed performance party
2024 dates: 2.16, 5.17, 7.19, 9.20, 11.24
See the previous strip club photos on Facebook here
Next event: Fri 11.15 , 9pm-3am, 21+ (25+ suggested)
HoS members only*, $0-25 GA / $0-45 reserved seats**, depending on membership level
Gemini & Scorpio Loft, 267 Douglass St, 3rd fl (ADA accessible)
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For one night only, our sexy clubhouse becomes a strip club, with a double-pole stage and an array of lap dance-ready seating. A hand-picked lineup of burlesque, pole or circus stars awaits, each stepping outside the boundaries of their genre to spend the whole night dancing for you on stage and in your lap.
Featuring
- Sideshow Scandal, most shameless clown in show business
- Jack Barrow, love child of Freddie Mercury & Liza Minnelli
- Gigi Holliday, Most Erotic Hollywood Burlesque 2023
- Nita B Yellowcakes, the tastiest slice of slink & spice
- Lys, as bendy as she is sexy
- Hosted by charming magician Eric Walton
Don't be late: entertainment starts at 9:30pm. Once the dancers are done at 1:30am, the stage is yours to shake your booty on. Live out your strip fantasies as our DJ provides the beats into the night.
Rules of the club: Tip generously. Don't hog the rail (stage-side seating) if not actively tipping. Respect the dancers. Keep your hands to yourself (or your partner). Please treat our pole gently; no wild swinging. No nudity or any other illegal behavior.
*HoS rules: HoS membership, Dress Code & PAL required; prior approval not required; Code of Conduct always applies; no photos except in the designated front area.
COVID safety: HoS requires proof of vaccination on file; masks encouraged; two hospital grade UV air purifiers will cycle the air.
**Reserved seats include: admission + seat at either a couch or a 4-person table with prime stage view. Seat choice is first-come, first-served.
Sat June 8: Brooklyn Pride and Afterparty
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Sat, Jun 8, 11am-5pm Brooklyn Pride street fair, 8pm-1am afterparty
Pride: 5th Ave in Park Slope from Union St to 9th St (our booth: corner of Union St), FREE, all ages
Party: 267 Douglass St, 3rd fl (ADA accessible), FREE w RSVP / $5-50 sugg don for loft renovations, 21+
Gemini & Scorpio and House of Scorpio are rolling out the rainbow runway for the huge Brooklyn Pride street fair along 5th Ave in Park Slope! Browse our festival, statement and party wear clothing picks, and get your Pride looks captured in our open-sky selfie photo booth.
Please let us know if you want to hang with us a bit and talk about what we do, our space and your experience here with new folks who may not know us yet (we'll have drinks & snacks for everyone!). It's also a great time to chat to us about events you may want to see us host, or your own events you may want to see happen here.
Then: we’re keeping the party going with Dynasty Dance afterparty. Channel your inner Alexis with gold lame, shoulder pads and power suits, and break out your best side-to-side dance moves. Dance-ready retro mix all night: 80s 90s 00s pop + house.
G&S Loft is your brand new 5k sq ft party home in Gowanus/Park Slope. It's been a year, and we're looking cute, but so much more is still TK: new kitchen! cabaret date nights! immersive dining! Entry is FREE, but please donate what you can at the door to help us become your dream venue. We accept cash, cards, Venmo and PayPal.
*HoS rules: Dress code, HoS membership, PAL or prior approval not required; Code of Conduct always applies; photos ok at this one!
COVID safety: HoS requires proof of vaccination on file; masks encouraged; two hospital grade UV air purifiers will cycle the air.
Fri 10.25: Persephone - dark dance + dungeon Halloween
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Fri 10.25, 9pm-4am, 21+ (25+ suggested), HoS members only*
$0-50 depending on membership level / $20 after 12:30am if capacity allows [door only]
Gemini & Scorpio Loft, 267 Douglass St, 3rd fl (ADA accessible)
As autumn's chill stills the air, Persephone once again journeys to the underworld to bring redemption and pleasure to its denizens and to seek out her immortal lover Hades. Taste the sacred pomegranate and join us in a modern recrafting of the sacred and erotic Eleusian mysteries.
A dark and haunting mix of dance, performance, sensory experience and kink play, Persephone is a myth-meets-fetish Halloween celebration. Featuring interactive sensory experiences and performances by Lydia Vengeance, Vonka Romanoff, Logan Laveau, Andreas Fenix and more. You may engage our dark demigods for personal scenes with their consent (and your tips) between their performances. Our resident dark DJ Alley Shiver keeps you dancing all night with goth, industrial, synth, dark 80s, new wave, electro and more.
Explore your dark desires...bring your dates & your toys. Consent and polite party behavior strictly enforced. Welcome to our underworld.
Dress code: gods and goddesses, devils and demons, damned souls, dark and light gothic, fetish rainbow, dark & light Lolita, cyberpunk, ninja warrior. Effort required / no casual wear.
HoS rules: HoS membership is required; no PAL requirement except in dungeon (BYO or engage one of our hosts); dress code and Code of Conduct apply; no photos except in the designated front area.
COVID safety: HoS requires proof of vaccination on file; masks encouraged; two hospital grade UV air purifiers will cycle the air.
Sun Feb 9 - The Sinners' Market: kink, fantasy, romance, alternative & gothic pop-up
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1-6pm, FREE, social media: @gemini_scorpio #houseofscorpio #thesinnersmarket (show us your treasures!)
Gemini & Scorpio Loft, Gowanus, BK - fill out form on top of page for address auto-reply
No PAL or dress code requirement, but HoS Code of Conduct always applies
NYC's only market full of decadent deals and transgressive trinkets for all your sexy, kinky, fantasy, alternative, gothic and sex-positive needs. The Valentine's edition brings more giftable items, for yourself or your beloveds.
Confirmed vendors:
- Miss Scorpio - Vintage, costume and designer pieces selected for their unique visual appeal
- Alienz Incorporated - Ethereal handcrafted headgear, masks and accessories
- Aqua de Soi - Spa quality clean-burning soy candles in deluxe scents, for your home or kink play
- Bound in Iron - Hand-forged BDSM accessories and toys
- Costumegasm - Pasties, booty shorts, elastic body harnesses and more party wear
- Etu Oils - All-natural plant-based body elixirs
- Figure of A - Couture London brand inspired by Japanese rope bondage
- Knot Very Nice - Had-dyed and tied cotton rope floggers
- Lady Euphoria NYC - Kinky rope art and BDSM coaching & kink experience certificates
- Lovelorn Lingerie - Leather harnesses as wearable art
- Miscallaneous Dom (until 4pm) - Kink-inspired high fashion finds
- New Jack Tales - Not-So-SweetHearts wearable lasercut gems and Valentine's cards
- Rainbow Mirror Art - Contemporary ancient art and hand-painted gemstone jewelry
- Sex Objects - Handmade glass objects of desire
- Stoya - Internationally renown pornographer and writer selling signed books and instax
Plus!
Flogging demo by Knot Very Nice (times TBC)
Autographs and photo ops with Stoya
Fri 12.30: The Winter Masquerade hedonistic New Year's Eve Eve
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9pm-3am, 21+ (25+ suggested), HoS members only*
$0-60 depending on membership level / $30 after 12:30am if capacity allows
Limited table reservations available
Gemini & Scorpio Loft, 267 Douglass St, 3rd fl (ADA accessible)
As Gemini & Scorpio readies a fairytale winter wonderland for New Year's Eve, we open our enchanted space a night early for our HoS fam: a hedonistic New Year's Eve Eve Masquerade, igniting your senses with sensual performances, pulsating beats, swirling custom visuals, sensory games and activities, impact play stations, and many kisses. A night to let go and let your senses guide your way.
Featuring jaw-dropping queer & kinky stage performances by The Midnight Foxes (Medianoche & Ivory Fox), The Bluenettes (Vonka Romanoff and Lydia Vengeance), Kita St Cyr and Aubrey Coletti. Art nouveau snowy wonderland projections by CJ. Photo capture by Team Rockstar Images.
Dress code: Slavic royalty, winter wonderland, mythical creatures, icy courtiers, dark fairytale, illustration Golden Age (Ivan Bilibin, Kay Nielsen, Edmund Dulac), Art Nouveau. Colors: white, silver, light blue, gray, shimmer & sparkle. Strict formal, lingerie or kink dress code if not in costume. Mask up for masquerade and COVID safety.
*HoS rules: membership required, no PAL requirement except at or near play stations; dress code and Code of Conduct apply; no photos except in the designated front area. While we're creating a safe space for you to get cozy or sensual with your friends and loved ones, this is not an X-rated or fully nude event. Kink play welcome, BYO gear.
COVID safety: HoS requires proof of vaccination on file; masks encouraged; two hospital grade UV air purifiers will cycle the air; windows will be open for ventilation.
Tue 12.31: Masked: hedonistic New Year's Eve
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9pm-4am, 21+ with ID (25+ suggested)
Monthly members: $0-$30; non-members: $40-60* / $30 after 12:30, including New Year's Morning Pajama Lounge w/continental breakfast
Gemini & Scorpio Loft, Gowanus, BK - fill out form on top of page for address auto-reply
No PAL or approval required, but HoS Code of Conduct always applies, including dress code
2019 needs a "fuck you" sendoff. Be bold, be wild, as you enter 2020.
A hedonistic Masquerade to activate your senses with pulsating beats, swirling visuals, sensory games and activities, impact play stations, and many kisses. Music by DJ Ceremony and Poodlecannon, masters of eclectic dance floor surprises. Custom interactive silhouette projections by CJ. Free champagne 9-10pm and 3-4am. First confetti cannons for first 50 guests.
Strict formal, lingerie or kink dress code. Masks required until midnight (some will be available for sale).
While we're creating a safe space for you to get cozy or sensual with your friends and loved ones, this is not an X-rated event. It's a night to let go and let your senses guide your way: dance party meets makeout party, with light sensory & BDSM play welcome. As always, we will have zero creeper tolerance, and please no photos without explicit consent from your subjects.
*All tickets offer the same access to the event. Please support at the level you can afford. Tickets are limited to keep the event comfortable and welcoming.
Wed 1.1: New Year's Morning Pajama Lounge
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4-9am, 21+ with ID (25+ suggested)
$20 with continental breakfast* / $30 with hot breakfast* / $0-$15 for monthly members
Gemini & Scorpio Loft, Gowanus, BK - fill out form on top of page for address auto-reply
No PAL or approval required, but HoS Code of Conduct always applies, including dress code
Sunrise cuddle puddle for our deviant extended family, with makeouts, mimosas, smoothies and breakfast. We'll keep the sexy beats going from late night into daylight.
Snacks and continental breakfast will be available throughout; hot breakfast served at 7am. And of course mimosas, smoothies and coffee - virgin or spiked. We'll have the giant screen up, and could cuddle up together for movies into daytime, too.
You're welcome to bring blankets, sleeping bags, stuffed animals, and anything else that makes you feel cozy.
Dress code: your disheveled New Year's finery or lingerie and lounge wear. Yes, you can always change here.
*As a courtesy, your afterparty ticket includes late access to the G&S NYE main event: Masked. You can arrive as early as 3am - or buy $30 combo tickets to arrive as early as 12:30.